Busting Excuses
When we get nervous, we make excuses. We make excuses to not love ourselves or not take care of ourselves. Sometimes life is just busy. We are crazy at work, or always having to drive someone SOMEWHERE. Sometimes it’s more important to spend time with our spouse. We also use excuses like ‘I wanna lose 15 pounds first!’ and ‘I just don’t have the money right now.’ I wanted to write this to show you all that no matter the excuse, you CAN do it! Let me show you that no matter the excuse, you are worthy of self-love!
“I don’t have enough time for myself.”
It’s also important that if you aren’t taking time for yourself mentally, you’re not going to be able to handle taking care of everyone else, which makes sense but is actually much easier said than done! Sometimes I am the WORST at making sure I’m giving myself mental health breaks and that’s why I think it’s so important to share this with you. I make the same excuses as above and sometimes I need someone to give me that kick in the butt and say “SLOW DOWN. You deserve a break.”
At a boudoir shoot you are able to take that much needed breather and love yourself for a few hours. Think of all the energy you’ll save on a daily basis if you stop comparing yourself to others, or stop worrying what other people think of how you look. You get to see where your beauty really comes from and this lifts a HUGE mental weight.
You need to take time for yourself. Why not spend it having an amazing time and getting glammed up for once?
“I’m not where I want to be weight wise/I don’t fit society’s idea of a good enough size.”
Did you know that the body type portrayed in advertising as the ideal body type is possessed naturally by only 5% of American females? ONLY FIVE PERCENT.
I will say this over and over again (and sorry, not sorry if you’ve heard me say it before), but WHY do you have to be a certain size to love yourself? WHY do you have to fit a strangers messed up idea of a perfect body to love your own body? WHY are you comparing your size to everyone else, when no two women are the same?!
I think it’s amazing to have goals and want to get healthy, but does it mean that you have to hate your body to do those things? Absolutely NOT! You should love yourself every step of the way. Be proud of where you are so that you can be proud of where you’re going. Have a boudoir shoot to celebrate where you are now, and then have one when you lose that 15 lbs to celebrate how far you’ve come!
“I never feel sexy anymore, so a boudoir shoot isn’t for me.”
WRONG.
This excuse is the EXACT reason you SHOULD do a boudoir shoot.
Often times we lose touch with our femininity and sexuality when life gets crazy because of health/kids/work etc. It happens a lot and it is absolutely normal and okay! A great way to find this side of ourselves again is to have a boudoir shoot done to put that spark back into us! I can show you that you have that inside of you somewhere, and it might even ignite a spark between you and your spouse as well!
Another thing to remember is that you don’t have to wear super sexy clothing/lingerie. If you feel like this isn’t a good representation of your personality, then there are endless other outfit ideas. If you need some help with what to wear I will gladly help you or you can check out my blog on finding outfits here!
‘A boudoir shoot is an investment and I don’t have the money right now.”
Yes. A boudoir shoot IS an investment. It is also an investment in yourself. You are investing in your well-being and confidence as well! I do offer payment plans. In order to book your shoot, there is a booking retainer, and after that we can set up your payment plan for the remainder so that it makes it easier for you to book a shoot! If you have questions about the payment plans, shoot me an email while setting up your shoot!
